For the most, your attitude towards life depends upon you which largely depend upon the quality of live you are willing to live. Everyone wishes to live with positive attitude, but then soon after a particular thing your mission comes to an end, and you soon turn into the ground of negativity. Many mystic guru, spiritual leaders and personalities have insisted to live a life with positive thoughts and how to maintain them. Our focus is nevertheless the same, here we would guide you on how to maintain positive attitude in relationship.
How To Maintain Positive Attitude in Relationship:
1. Remember the rule – No one is made perfect
When you say about this, No one is made perfect it should imply even you, your behaviour and your character. If your partner is up to, let him live his life in his own way and not according to you. Yes, there are possibilities of hurting you, committing mistakes but May out of mistakes and errors. All you need to think this time is “no one is made perfect, not even you” and look forward to solve the problem with positive attitude.
2. You voice tone
This is surprising to know, that 2% of fights happen due to individual opinions while rest 98% happen everything due to your tone of speaking. Your tone while speaking is very important to create an impression, or maintain an impression in front of your partner. If you hatesomething, we would ask you to let him know in a very gentle and polite way. Talking loudly is equal to howling for us, and not only me but the whole world hates this.
3. Read Books based on positivity
What about reading some positive thoughts, positive phrases and positive books? Yes, indeed this is a good idea to maintain a positive attitude in relationship. You can largely focus only on the protagonist who plays the role of being superman, or superwomen and how she carried the attitude throughout the movie. Well, due to his great (positive) attitude he there stays proud as protagonist and you can learn from there on how to act and role in real life.
4. Do some yoga
Performing early morning yoga is very important from various points of views. It not only benefits in maintaining body weight but also helps to relax the stress muscles in you. Don’t know why and how, but performing yoga or any exercise in the morning, helps to look forward in the positive way and also boost your mood. If not yoga, you can go for 30 m running, walking, cycling or any other activities.
5. Focus of good things
There are various couple, who get separated after getting into a major or sometimes minor fight. But this depends on you, because you are the person who would focus on things and issues. Focus on good things, all the memorable moments and off course positive thoughts you have been shared in all these days of relationship. Why this? Focusing more on positive things will help to think positively and avoid breakups in relationship.
6. Carry a Zen attitude
Well, like the lazy lancers you are about here to think, why life is so unfair to you! Yes, this is a thought which may hit every person at least once in two days. Now, you weep, cry upon the split milk and think on how can be god and life is so unfair to you! Instead of following this boring procedure, carry a Zen attitude. People who carry Zen attitude will think what should I learn from this? If life is so unfair to me, how can I make it fair towards me? This will help you to grow happiest, and better.
I don’t think much while I smile! Same should be with you because all I believe is; smile is the only curve that sets all the problems straight. You need to smile everywhere and anywhere. One day, smile can be the only and strongest weapon that would help you to solve problems with ease and also gracefully. The easy way to see a happy day is, when you wake up in the morning, go to the mirror and then give a smile. Bring all those thoughts that will make you think, “You are special”.
8. Don’t give up on responsibilities.
If he has given you a certain responsibility, try to challenge them and do it by yourself. Giving up on responsibilities or simply not accomplishing the task can fill your mind with negative thoughts. This is because, you were not able to do and hence you face is failure. But trying and still trying can make you proud for the moments you have kept trying and not given up.
9. Get surrounded with positive people
You know, peer pressure or your co-workers, colleagues play an important role in shaping your life. You should make sure, you are surrounded with good and people with positive attitude. When someone says, “we would be facing problems from than in life” clan of positive people would probably say, “we will face them all together and get a clean solution out of it”.
10. Living with gratitude
And at moment, when you are doing some things and you encounter a person, who would choose to speak negative about people, or sometimes you. The best thing here to do is, IGNORE. If you are not ignoring, you can develop a negative concept about yourself in brain or for your partner. Talking negative or negative things in mind often come when you are not confident in relationship. Instead, of revolving around the negatives in life you can jot down on things for which you are thankful to your partner. Make him feel special and wanted.
Living with a positive attitude is a most essential key that helps to sustain any relationship. You need to be positive while talking to any person on this planet, and